Ladies, how often have you wondered if he has a true romantic interest in you or is it just a passing fancy? Is he looking at me or just staring over my head? Did you know that it's relatively easy to tell if a guy is truly interested in you? While not all men are easy to read, some of their noticeable - and not so noticeable - tendencies can give away their true feelings.
In fact, here are 10 ways to tell if he is truly interested in you:
- Is he nervous around you? If so, he is probably eager to please you. His nerves belie an intention not to "screw up" in front of you. So take notice of whether or not he is nervous - a sure way to tell if he is interested in you.
- Check out his body language - he may SAY one thing... but what does he DO? Does he tend to stand or sit close to you? Does he touch you affectionately? Does he seem to brighten up and smile more when you're together?
- Does he find excuses to be close you or talk to you? Does he show an interest in your life? If he seems to truly care about what is going on in your life and your hopes and dreams, that's a way to tell if he is truly interested.
- Do you find him staring at you? While it might be disconcerting at times, trust me - this is often a dead give-away that he's into you.
- Is he hanging on your every word? Does he start talking about subjects he's unlikely to be interested in? If you find he is voicing opinions, which he may not even agree with just to be in agreement with you..., you can be sure that he is truly interested in you.
- How does he act around you and how do his friends act when you are there? Do they tease him and smile pleasantly? If his friends are affectionately teasing him, you can be sure that THEY know he's interested in you... especially if he smiles and is suddenly lost for words!
- Does he give "the look"? Does he look at you intently from head to toe taking in every part and then hold your gaze? This goes beyond staring - this is the gaze of someone who has fallen head over heels for you.
- Does he just show up? Does he find a way to be where you are when you least expect it? If so, you're seeing a person who is spontaneous, thoughtful and has YOU on his mind. No question, he wants to not only be with you, but to be there FOR you.
- Does he call you just because he was thinking about you? Someone who isn't interested would NEVER do that, so obviously the guy truly digs you.
- Does he do small unexpected things to surprise you? Flowers or chocolates for no particular reason... little gifts you are bound to enjoy... taking you out on surprise outings... these are all ways to tell that he truly is interested in you.
Finally, one more way to know if he's truly interested in you: your gut! What is it telling you? Deep down, if you feel as though he's fallen for you, you are probably right. Now don't rush out there and blurt out your feelings too. Relax and discover what else you need to do.
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From Bj Moorer and http://www.RelationshipAdviceHeadquarters.com
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