Its hard to know what's going on in a man's mind. That why relationships can be incredibly frustrating sometimes. In this article we'll delve deep into the depths of the male psyche so you can understand men's mind's better and improve your dating and relationships with the opposite sex.
The worst way to try to get your man to quit smoking is to pressure him or to give him an ultimatum. In order to take positive action and make changes in their life people first need to feel accepted. Let your man know that you'll love him even if he does smoke. Or if this is a deal breaker for you let him know that it's a personal thing for you. You'll still like him a lot if he carries on smoking, its just a personal issue that you have.
Here's a great script to use to encourage him to give up for you.
"I think you're great and I really enjoy spending time with you. I do need to let you know that since my dad passed, I made a promise to myself that I won't get seriously involved
with a smoker. It's just too hard for me. So please understand that I am not asking you to change for me. I'm just letting you know that this is a decision I have made for myself and whatever you decide to do with that information is up to you."
This way he feels much less pressured and is much more likely to see your point of view and quit smoking for you.
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By Rodney DeLatouche
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