The first thing I would like to do is to be really upfront with you and say this, there are no absolutes when it comes to body language. This is also more so the case when it comes to what we say. With that said that does not mean that you can have a far greater advantage when you understand and study how we as human beings communicate.
Let me explain what I mean by that, as a guy I do not go out and make it obvious that I like a girl. I will actually watch my body language and I almost do this subconsciously because like every other person on the planet, I fear rejection.
The notion that there is plenty of other fish in the sea is nice, but that does not help when you have been rejected by somebody whom you have affection for. So naturally are defenses are up and our sole objective is to protect ourselves, so as to survive as such.
It is unfortunate that we build these defensive walls because often times we miss out on opportunities due over analysis or pre-judgment based on our pre-conceived notions which in this case dictate our actions.
With all that said in the heat of the moment our protective shields can come down in the form of how our body communicates.
Lets take a simple example, you are sitting at home watching TV slouched in the sofa, then you hear something that peaks your interest, what happens immediately, you sit up, this also occurs in conversations when something peaks your interest.
You do this automatically with out thinking about it and it happens to all if us at any given moment when our interests are peaked. So no matter how we prepare spontaneous events can take place which evoke natural human behavior.
So when it comes to effectively reading men's body language you need to create a comfortable environment, do not be quick to judge because initially he may not be acting naturally, so as consequence patience is key and there also needs to be a comfortable environment.
If he sits up or gets close when talking to you this is a positive signal that he is showing interest, on the other hand if he is messing with his hands or looking elsewhere with his arms folded, then give him what he deserves, and that's the boot.
This is all common sense in one respect and your smart enough to know that, the key is to relax, make the environment comfortable, then watch for tell tale natural human behavior.
This will enable you to gage interest and then rather than be rejected you can move on before you become too emotionally invested.
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